Frustrating ~syscourse~

We hate to bring up Tumblr "syscourse" on here, because it's terrible and negative, but we're so annoyed with it and we don't want to actually post about it on Tumblr for fear of attracting drama/gatekeepers, so we'll just rant about it on here a little bit.


( Under a cut in case it's not something you want to read. Warning for very nonspecific mentions of abuse/trauma, and obviously lots of gatekeeper/invalidation talk. )