Right, it's such a useful word! It's really nice to have a specific term for it, bc it's definitely valid and a real experience that a lot of system members have (and possibly fictionkin/otherkin? idk if it's a system-only term but i don't see why it couldn't be also for 'kin folks too), it's nice to be able to talk about it, so I'm glad the term has opened up more discussion about it, I just wish the gatekeepers would leave it alone ;o;

I haven't heard the term exo-abuse, I guess it would fall under exotrauma, but I don't see why you couldn't use exo-abuse to be more specific!

- Carson